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Monday, April 27, 2015

Persuasion, manipulation and seduction...what's the difference?

       Persuasion, manipulation and seduction are used on a daily basis in advertising as well as, by individuals in both group and one-on-one situations.  Although they are all different, the methods can be used together in order to change the audience’s behavior.  This paper will show the difference between persuasion, manipulation and seduction, and which techniques work best on various audiences.


Persuasion is defined by Codoban as the “process by which a person’s attitudes or behaviors
are, without duress, influenced by other people through communication” (Codoban, 2006, p. 151).  He goes on to explain that persuasion assumes that the persuasion decision is made freely and consciously by the person being persuaded (Cobodan, 2006, p.151).  Persuasion happens when one party takes a stance on a subject and another party consciously tries to make the first party see their stance and change their opinion to match their own.  The key to persuasion is that the person being persuaded knows that they are being persuaded and is able to make a decision either to change their attitude or behavior or not.  Persuasion is used in advertising, by politicians, as well as, by individuals in one-on-one or group conversations. 
According to Codoban who quoted Cialdina, manipulation differs because it is “the ability to produce a distinct kind of automatic, mindless compliance from people, that is, a willingness to say yes without thinking first” (Codoban, 2006, p. 154).  Seduction, on the other hand, focuses on a subject or object and promises that happiness or pleasure will results from changing one’s attitude or behavior (Codoban, 2006, p.157).  With manipulation the party being manipulated does not consciously know that they are being manipulated.  Much like manipulation, someone being seduced does not always know they are being seduced at that time; although, in most cases, they are likely to figure it out later.
            Persuasion in a one-on-one situation is when two people have differing opinions on a subject and one tries to educate the other person so they will not only understand and accept their point-of-view, but adopt the other’s point-of-view, as well.  Someone can use persuasion to try to convince their friend to watch a television show that they really enjoy, by telling them a little about the show
and why they think they will enjoy it as well.  Someone can use persuasion to try to get another person to come to their church, or change their religion, by telling them about their experience and showing them why their beliefs are supported in the Bible.  One can attempt to persuade another person on just about any subject, some major and some that are minor.
            Manipulation in a one-on-one setting can happen using many different approaches.  The author has a first-hand example from high school.  She and her friends were trying to raise money for a party.  Her friend went around and asked for two dollars from people that planned to attend and only raised twelve dollars.  The author went around and asked people for fifty cents.  Most people wouldn’t even ask why and just give her a dollar.  Those that did ask why ended up giving more than a dollar and in half an hour at lunch she raised more than fifty dollars.  Asking for a smaller amount made the giver feel more generous and manipulated them into giving more, which was her plan the entire time.
            Seduction can happen in a one-on-one or group situation.  The key to seduction is to offer a promise that is appealing enough to your audience to make them do what the seducer wants.  It helps to know your audience, or at least know what would appeal to most people if you are talking to a group.  A boss may try to seduce their employee into supporting them by telling the employee that they will get the raise, a bonus, or promotion by doing so, when in reality they have no control over the raise or promotion.  This has happened to multiple people at the author’s employer.  In advertising companies try to seduce the audience by showing individuals that are elated and living a perfect life with the suggestion that you too, will have their happiness if you use or buy their product.
Prime examples of persuasion and seduction are political campaign ads.  Many times these advertisements will incorporate some sort of seduction.  Take for instance President Obama in his 2008 run for Presidency.  His campaign ran a slogan “Change We Can Believe In” for about nineteen
months before changing to “Change We Need” (Hoppock. 2008).  His campaign slogans used seduction promising that he was the change needed to bring the economy back and give hope to the American people.  He used persuasion by running commercials that showed facts that his opponent had voted over ninety percent of the time with the current President who had run the economy into the ground and wanted to privatize and cut Social Security.  In addition, he knew that being African American was a hurdle to overcome, so he started off with commercials displaying pictures from his childhood and spoke of being raised by a single mother and grandparents and he spoke about coming from poverty to gain common ground with the lower and middle class families that were struggling (Obama Media Team, 2008, Country I Love).  These were tactics to manipulate the public into overlooking the color of his skin, and putting the focus on commonalities he had with so many Americans. 

            He also used persuasion to show that one of the biggest issues to the American people at the time, the economy, was not considered broken by his opponent with his commercial, Fundamentals, that showed a clip of John McCain stating that the “…fundamentals of our economy are strong…” then the commercial asked how can John McCain can fix something he doesn’t think is broken (Obama Media Team, 2008).  This persuaded many Americans to believe that Obama was the only candidate that could fix the economy.  This commercial was targeting the great majority of voters that were struggling financially.
             Audiences vary greatly, and so will their receptiveness to persuasion, manipulation and seduction.  Persuasion works best on individuals that have a wide latitude for acceptance, or a wide range of positions found to be acceptable (Seiter, 2006, p. 55).  Seduction works best on individuals that buy into the promise of happiness or pleasure, or have a lust for the results promised.  There are some individuals that are not swayed by the power of seduction because they are too analytical, so they are too busy looking at the facts and questioning the validity of the promises being made.  Manipulation can only occur if the party being manipulated does not know they are being manipulated.
Motivation by the party trying to persuade and by the party being persuaded both have a major role in the success of the persuasion attempt; as does the ability to convey the message and understand the message.  These two elements are key to persuasion, manipulation and seduction.  If the person trying to persuade, manipulate or seduce is not properly conveying the message, or does not have the proper motivation, their message will not be received well.  That being said, no matter how well a message is delivered, if the audience has no motivation to thoroughly listen to the message, or does not have the ability to grasp the message it can also stop the persuasion, manipulation or seduction from happening.  If the audience has the motivation to listen, but does not have the ability to understand, it can still result in the person being persuaded because they may just accept that the other party knows more so they are credible and they should listen to the person delivering the message.
            Persuasion works best on individuals that are not closed minded and will hear other opinions on a subject.  Manipulation works best on simple decisions that do not take a lot of thought.  Seduction works best on people that are not analytical, but have a desire for the promises the deliverer has to offer.  All three methods can be used separately, or in conjunction with one another.  The key to any attempt at persuasion, manipulation or seduction is to know enough about your audience to take the proper approach, to have the motivation and to understand their ability to grasp, or not to grasp, your desired outcome. 

References


Hoppock, J. (2008, September 12) Obama’s ‘Change’ Slogan Gets a Change. ABCNews.com Retrieved from http://abcnews.go.com/blogs/politics/2008/09/obamas-change-s/

Obama Media Team. (2008) Obama for America. Country I Love. From Museum of the Moving Image, The Living Room Candidate: Presidential Campaign Commercials 1952-2012.  Retrieved from www.livingroomcandidate.org/commercials/2008/country-i-love (accessed October 6, 2013).

Obama Media Team. (2008) Obama for America. Fundamentals. From Museum of the Moving Image, The Living Room Candidate: Presidential Campaign Commercials 1952-2012.  Retreived from: www.livingroomcandidate.org/commercials/2008/fundamentals. (accessed October 6, 2013).

Seiter.  Perspectives on Persuasion, Social Influence, and Compliance Gaining. Pearson Learning Solutions. Retrieved from <vbk:0558414850#outline(5)>.

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